I could go on for hours, easily, about how much I cannot stand the abrupt transition from Halloween to Christmas. It’s partially a selfish thing, as my birthday falls around Thanksgiving (and yes, occasionally, on Thanksgiving). Black Friday, shopping at all hours, and getting every new gadget and whatsit on the market before everyone else has become such an important thing, and something about that has come to bother me to such a degree that even just typing about it twists my stomach up a bit. Yes, this is coming from someone who had waited in line in hopes of getting a Nintento Wii years back.
Moving along. I’ve done my fair share of bitching and moaning this year. It has certainly been a year of stress and loss, and I have had days when all I wanted to do was cover the windows to get that dark-as-midnight kind of darkness in my room, pull the covers around me nice and tight, and not deal with anything. I am still grieving over losing Missy earlier this summer, and now I’ve got to deal with Mackenzie, one of my family’s other dogs, passing away recently.
I mention these things because I have so much to be thankful for. This might get to sounding a little preachy at times. Not intentionally, of course, but this veers away from my usual writing to a point where it might do things it wasn’t meant to.
As I was saying, I have so much to be thankful for. Not just the good things in my life, mind you, but the bad ones as well. Without the bad things, I could perhaps lose sight of just how good the good things in my life really are, and that would be a real shame I think.
I am thankful for having such a strong support system; for a family that supports me through everything, even though I can be a bit much to deal with at times with the snark and sarcasm. I am equally thankful for Brianne’s family (and, of course, Brianne as well) being so good to me, since living two hours away from everything I knew all my life can be a bit terrifying at times. I am thankful for my two cats and my dog back home with my family, even though I am still so lost without Missy and Mackenzie (who were, beyond any doubt, two of the greatest dogs in the history of all existence as far as I am concerned).
I am thankful for my friends who are always there for me, when I’m at my best or when I’m at my worst, because they’re the people I know I can always count on. I’m just as thankful for my friends who haven’t always been there for me, because they’ve reminded me of the importance of being able to stand on my own at times. Life beyond college has proved to be such a tricky beast, and the things it has shown me about people have been rather eye-opening.
I am thankful for the job I have, and the pay and benefits it provides me with, because it has made it possible for me to move out and start to work on becoming a proper, responsible adult (I mean, as responsible as I can possibly be). I’m truly thankful for the people I met because of this job, or gotten to know better because of it, because they’re all right in their own rights. I’m also thankful for the hardships it has put me through, because I’m still here after dealing with them. Even if a lot of the work-stress has been caused by avoidable situations.
The list could go on and on, really. Just remember, whether you’re gunning for a new XBOX One, a tremendous flatscreen that would look perfect in your man-cave, or whatever, to take a moment–at the very least, a moment–to be thankful. If I’ve learned nothing else from this past year, it’s how life is far too short, and so many things that seem like they will be there forever tend to go away much, much too soon.
More importantly, I’d like to wish an early, but very happy, healthy Thanksgiving to everyone out there in the vastness of the Internet. I hope you all have time to stuff yourselves with delicious food, and spend quality time with family.
As my pal Nancy says on her blog (Spirit Lights the Way), new stuff is just one more thing that needs dusting.